Shit happens

Over the past decade I have been through some surreal life challenges.  I have also watched loved ones endure and move through extremely painful experiences.

Before I say another word, I have got to say that I will not place any judgment on someone moving through a painful experience.  That isn’t the intention of this blog.

My magical thought and words of wisdom for today: SHIT HAPPENS.  Sometimes things go wrong.  It’s as simple as that.   I don’t believe that ALL bad things happen for a reason.  Sometimes life sucks.  And the only way we can feel and move through the shit is, well… to move through and feel things.   We don’t HAVE TO EXPLAIN tragedies.

Maybe in hindsight we will be blessed with a fortunate experience after a tragedy.  That is wonderful. I hope we all have that.  Maybe we have to have bad things happen so we can feel good things?  I frankly don’t know and I don’t care.

Whether you are religious or an atheist.....Take the space.   No need to explain.   Things just make suck.   I have found that FEELING this stuff is harder than anything I’ve every had to do.  And explaining or coming up with a reason can belittle our feelings.

May you be peaceful and at ease.  May you be healthy.  May you be safe.